I could go on. You can safely say that over 99% of all violence committed in our world has been committed by men. I would say that women most often become violent when they have been brutalized, because the extreme trauma suffered completely ruins a human being without assistance; yet there have been women who have been raped and severely brutalized that have chosen to do the right thing, but what then is the right thing? And for what purpose? However, in the year it took to clear your husband of any wrongdoing, he's become a stranger to the children. They shouldn't be nice to you given how you openly declare your distaste for them. We see this from a very early age when little boys like to play with toy guns, cars and planes, while little girls like to play with dolls and prams. Its really interesting abd informative reading all the comments about this, what i didn't realise is about the percentages of crime - yes i knew men cause more crime than females but never realised its about 99% - that is alot and really needs to be addressed! Most male animals tend to fight each other for power and access to females, and evolutionists tell us this is a good thing, as the strongest male gets to pass on his genes to the next generation. im sorry to say it but i dont think lucy83 reads what you write wabond. The point about matriarchy based on women's matneral and nurturing instincts, we have a chance of getting caring and loving people into positions of power. For instance many men have attempted to create equal societies with socialism and communism but totally failed because their competitive instincts got in the way of this. A matriarchal government will not only have to take control of the government, but also the media, the military, the business and financial worlds. Females do not have the same pressures in that regard, because men's criteria for a sexual partner have always been different, and over human history, women evolved to express those traits, and men to express others. However, you are not making a difference by indirectly saying "fuck you" to everyone who does not nor will not ever agree with you, instead you are doing the complete opposite. "Patrairchal rulers treat people as if they are numbers, or pawns in a chess game. And that is the reason why the world is in a mess. But a very great deal is instigated by women. For instance in the French revolution that promised equality for all people, only succeeded in creating a reign of terror as men like Robespierre and later Napoleon Bonaparte fought for power. HubPages is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. No person would want to do that, unless driven by a powerful maternal instinct. it somewhat is the hierarchy for the God-like one. This is why in any dispute, a matriarchal government is far, far more likely to talk it through than any patriarchal government. The fact is that men are totally useless at ruling our world. There have been female inventors throughout history, there have also been a few female geniuses as well, and that to me is a lot better than there being absolutely no women that have done those things, those few women have shown the world that women have the potential to create and invent the extrodinary, to build the structures and foundations of an entirely new society, to achieve human excellence in its purest form. Now, whatever may be said about dominance, good or bad, there seem to be certain personality traits that lend themselves to leadership, and certain ones that don't. Yes, men do have good intentions, many men, do want to make our world a better place, but cannot overcome their aggressive and competitive instincts to do this. Tyranny is easier to form in the structure of a monarchy. Have you thought about that? The first definition paves the way for the second definition. I never said. but men, as the military has shown, can be brutalised or trained into becoming killers. It is dustproof and waterproof and can be recycled. Men may have invented weapons, but women *still* don't tend to invent much at all. May foster technological progress. Women burst into that male-dominated scientific field without need for tools, money or encouragement. Poly means "many" and "andry" means "husbands". Unfortuantely, we live in a world where justice is not always served and it costs the victim a great deal more to gain justice than what it should, such is the consequence of living a socially corrupt society thats bent more on attaining power, and conquest than on striving to serve the ultimate good. Copyright @2022 All Right Reserved Designed and Developed by Maven Logix, Patriarchy Vs Matriarchy: Understanding the Difference, Pros and Cons of Patriarchy vs Matriarchy, Superwomen breaking the myths and handed-down opinions, The desi dad syndrome that every middle-class kid can relate to, 20 Things That Pakistani Millennials Miss From Their Childhood. And in many cases seem to make the situation worse, as conflict between different religions and religious sects has caused many wars. Advantages of Marijuana. Most women who do this do it to acquire de facto physical custody of the children the man will then be prevented from contacting (there's your awesome maternal instinct, depriving children of a loving father), and to gain physical custody and control of the home and assets (there's your "women are not greedy like those awful men"). "Women do have better communication and social skills than men, which is another reason why they should be ruling our world.". This was harmful to your children. What do you want to do exactly? We should understand the manner in which these are different from one another. Surely you don't want people like that to run the world. The best mothers are known to be Elephants, Alligators, Orangutans, Greater Hornbills, Octopuses, Earwigs, Bears, Polar Bears, Lionesses, and Wolf Spiders. But if you want to be pernickety about it, yes it is people who commit violence but over 99% of the people who do this, are men. No government of any developed country wants to see children in poverty - male or female. This is only a tiny fraction of the accomplishments of human kind under what you call patriarchy. Now, it is over 70% female. And they always say, 'it is the woman's fault'. The people can choose to vote for the status-quo in traditional patriarchal political parties and continue to allow competitive minded men rule our world. Yes, we need more people to know about these ideas. Certainly no man would do this. Then once we get into a violent situation we end up with psychopaths becoming leaders, because a psychopath is far more able to deal with violence than ordinary men. Government is able to interfere with the free market because it is currently 100X bigger than it was before women's suffrage. Absolutely nothing, and how come you claim to not be interested in speaking with others who do not agree with you when by reading Wabond's article above this should have been obvious and you should have avoided this in advance? This is because most of the wealth and important jobs are in the hands of men. You are incapable of seeing women as agents. If you're not prepared to thank maleness on the whole for saving your life when that catscan detected an aneurysm, then you shouldn't be vilifying maleness on the whole for the vagaries of war. It is not because men lack intelligence that they go to war. Furthermore, this system is quite liberal to research, development, and change. We can only change this for the better by allowing women to rule our world. Having the tubes tied will prevent the egg and sperm from meeting and, therefore, fertilization will not be possible. I'm glad there are people like you in this world! And please note, the people killing the defenceless population, are all men. This is why they do a terrible job in ruling our world. It would be far better if men stop looking for scapegoats for the world's problems and blame each other and look at themselves and men in general. Throughout history women have shown, they are far less aggressive and violent than men, even, though they have been brutalised by men of violence. It is crazy to say men and women are the same when it is so clear that they are not the same. What IS an obvious difference is that matriarchal societies had women making the decisions. I know men are good at blaming it on the Devil or other men and some even have the cheek to blame women. Daughters inherit the property of the mother. ". It actually makes me throw up in my mouth a little. Matrifocality and Women's Power: The Peril of Fixed Opinions "Obviously, you would give your life for your children, or give them the last biscuit on the plate. At the present moment with the mishandling of the world's financial system, with rising population, global warming and more and more wars people are getting fed up with our present system. Just this sentence of yours could be straight from Orwell: "The public will also have to be re-educated to want to vote for geniune caring and nuturing women.". That's not what we were talking about. William Bond (author) from England on May 19, 2012: Off course the differences between men and women are biological. Of course men and women are different but any two people are different. Descent, Inheritance and Succession: Here the descent is traced through the mother. Also I believe a matrairchal government will be more interested in teaching boys to be caring and loving people than any patriarchal government. Now you're shifting goalposts. Do you honestly think that telling the men who rule our world that they are being sexist is going to change anything? The real reason for women being less violent historically is because they had men to do the fighting for them. Then it should be obvious that we need to try and see if the other sex can do a better job in doing this. I think this discussion is done. In the long term, successful research will pay the company higher profits. You seem to feel that women have existed in a bubble through all of human history. You then have to ask yourself why are we allowing idiots like this rule and dominate our world? Perhaps it is the patriarchal censorship that has suppressed ideas like this, but the internet is allowing this ideas to come to light. The reason being, is that women are not as competitive as men and will lose out in any very competitive system. When you see the mess the world is in, with men ruling our world. It is crazy to say men and women are the same. I never even knew about Rosalind Elsie Franklin until you told me! If we look into the pros and cons of each system of governance, many factors need deep thinking. While men continue to do this, we will always have wars, genocide, poverty and a large gap between rich and poor. To be fair, this is the situation in our world today, and has always been the case throughout recorded history. Patriarchal societies are traditionally male-dominated, while matriarchal societies are female-dominated. Do you even realize what you just said? So why are we continuing with a system that clearly does not work? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ggWy50I9et8. Yes, there are a number of female inventors and scientists, but they never get the credit they deserve in our patriarchal world. Back in medieval times they had the sport of jousting where two riders charge each other with long lancers on horseback. "I am not painting a patriarchal picture of women i am painting a biological one. If you want to live in a society where women rule, the Mosuo are there waiting for you in China, in their villages with no electricity or running water, and where livestock roam through the houses. This statement comes from a grave misconception of what causes wars. His culture is practical, rational, war-like, aggressive, and authoritarian. The point I am making is that if we have men rule our world, motivated by a powerful competitive instinct we off course are going to have wars and men fight each other to see who is the strongest. but men, as the military has shown, can be brutalised or trained into becoming killers.". Why don't you go to the patent office and check what percentage of patents have been registered to women since 1982 (the year women achieved parity in post-secondary education)? This is why the gap between rich and poor is growing all the time. Anyone who has an understanding of statistics will know that correlation does not imply causation. It is not the so called Western stereoypical and most feared, female supremecist society that many bullshit about; I mean, we don't even know what a true female supremacist society in all its full potential would be like given our so called biological differences. For men, it is youth and beauty, for women it is power, status and material wealth. This goes against the principles laid down by the religious beliefs and practices. Tell me, should I bother going over what I said yet again? Many critics have glorified patriarchy calling it the defeat of the female sex. Once more, I did not say men and women are the same. Following the argument of my main work, Matriarchy, which is in the process of being published in several consecutive volumes, I briefly want to present my theory of matriarchal society. 145 other terms for advantages and disadvantages- words and phrases with similar meaning This is why I wan't women to rule instead. We may not like it but last I heard women are human beings as well and I don't think that they should sit back and take the abuse and not get even for the treatment that is brought upon them. William Bond (author) from England on July 17, 2012: Girlwiteswhat, I suppose you are going to condemn the whole female sex on the actions of a few women like Margaret Thatcher or Elisabeth Bathory. I cannot believe that the men ruling our world are actually going to change and see the errors of their ways and become nicer people. Flexibility & Scalability; Regulatory Compliance. In India from the Hindu mythology we learn that five pandavas had married Draupadi. Do you do so for the sake of argument, that you may gain some satisfaction in asserting your bias as well as your social and political views where it naturally doesn't belong nor is wanted? I'm not interested in discussing gender issues with someone who cannot see women as human beings. And yes, boys and men clearly are NOT free to express themselves; if they were, they would be able to wear skirts and dresses in public without shame, and wear slightly revealing clothes and Speedoes without being tainted with the gay label. How are boys suppose to develop in a patriarchal society where we are taught to be macho, aggressive and brutal towards others? Money saving Common activities. Can be a lengthy and noisy procedure. Women did not just sit on their ass and do absolutely nothing while leaving all the inventions and responsibilities to men, I have never in all my early ages of life believed that and I absolutely never will. You say that warfare comes from competing cultures and I agree with this, but who are the people competing with each other? Women cannot compete against men when they use violence. There is some conflicting evidence of matriarchal tribes. A contemporary news and media magazine that brings the latest in art, culture, lifestyle, food, fashion, entertainment and the most interesting stories from the people of Pakistan. Males dominate those, because they have a greater interest in them. Only if they perform the act convincingly will they get voted. As for the idea of women being as violent as men if given the chance of getting into power. If we want to live in a caring and loving world. both men and women can be be corrupt when given power, therefore it makes no difference who's in charge. This fierce competitive instinct also creates very unequal societies as well. They do not feel the same compulsion to innovate and invent, to distinguish themselves through rigorous and difficult accomplishments, because they do not have the same motivation and competitiveness as men. Which is just a better wording of what I said earlier. So not only does a matrairchal government has to convince the voters they are better than the existing goverments, they have to demostrate they are a better than the existing system when they are in power or they will be voted out of office. You are incapable of seeing women as human beings, who are fallible, who make mistakes, who make shitty decisions of their own free will, and who own their own lives and the decisions they make. If we have a matriarchal system based on the nurturing feminine ideals then people will vote for politicans who are not great military leader or successful con men but geniuine caring and loving people. It includes transferring the name, power, and authority towards the son. I'm not interested in discussing gender issues with someone who cannot see women as human beings. The system usually rewards women for this behavior. The very fact that women are far less ruthless, aggressive and competitive than men, will make them far better rulers of our world. Disadvantages of Distributed Systems. This is just another sexist rant filled with misandry. Rinse and repeat. One thing I don't know if you realize is that women are equally violent in their personal relationships as men. I already answered this several times. To me it has become obvious that women would do a better job in ruling our world. I'm not making this up this is historic fact. If you want women to rule the world, fine. A woman will serve almost equal time as a man for shoplifting, but for something like murder, she enjoys a huge gendered discount in criminal court. It is short sighted and reactionary at best. Monarchies can require minors to serve as their country's head of state. Wars were nearly always the result of competing cultures. The idea of an all female government is ridiculous. Although tyranny can form under any structure of government, it is easier to form within the structure of a monarchy. Politicians pretend to be caring, decent people so that they win voters. And crazily, the worse a woman's offense, the more eager we are to absolve her. Any of these 'males' with fandom fantasies are simply 'beta', weak men who are not attractive and will not pass on their genes. Yes, violent men always make this excuse. Women know this too. Women can invent things if given the tools, money, education and encouragement to do this. And in our competitive patriarchal world is seems that the most competitive and aggressive people get to the top.. It harnesses the potential productivity and protectiveness of males. In a government of equal numbers of men and women, there is nothing to stop men fiercely competing against the women for power. ". And again, you seem to blame men for all the bad things that have ever happened, without once realizing that the competitive push of men is what carried us from hunter-gatherer to agrarian to industrial to post industrial. "Lucy, who is it that invents and builds and uses weapons of mass destruction? Are you going to say that is also a sexist remark? I have no problem with a matriarchy or women ruling the world. We have had many great thinkers trying to solve these problems, through either religion or politics, but what is noticeable with all these solutions, is that they all have failed. Advantages of family a) Perform various functions The culture of the family started before humans came into existence. In 1943, Maslow developed his hierarchy . William Bond (author) from England on June 11, 2012: Thank you Aincas, for your positive feedback. To keep on repeating what I have previously said. "Things can only change when we have matriarchal political parties where women are free to be themselves and not have men tell them how to behave.". Yes, patriarchy do use women's maternal instincts against them, suggesting that her nurturing instinct make women too 'weak' and emotional to make sensible decisions. Males often die to protect their offspring. You also completely ignore what competition is: the result of people wanting or needing something of which there isn't enough for everyone. They can get away with it because science is still controlled by male chauvinists. Muslems hate Jewish and Christian men, Christian and Jewish men hate Muslems. Men used acid, and taught women to use the same weapons against them. But today, through democracy, it is now possible for a political party to gain power without the use of violence, so it would be possible for women to set up a Matriarchal political party or even take over existing political parties, Now, many feminists say that one sex shouldn't rule our world and men and women should share power equally. You might also want to consider that men constitute the vast majority of the victims of violent crimes too. If the world is really so bad, then go and live by yourself but don't sit here enjoying the accomplishments of civilization every day while hating on them. Again, repeating a statement doesnt make it right. It has to live in its pristine form. Disadvantages of primary research Some of the advantages of primary research are: More up to date. History shows the existence of a system governed by women, respected by all genders. Mothers are not known to do this. Research and Development. Please don't stone me - the poor human - for translating what my alien-from-outer-space friend said to me. Man has reaped what he has sown. No patriarchy or matriarchy will fix that. I not only blame men I blame all of humanity and am pretty damn ashamed to walk this earth as a human being, at least if I was an animal I could leave this earth with a natural respect and dignity in spirit from my Grandmother the Earth, but as a human being I am forced to prove myself worthy of it, which is what I will dedicate my life in doing! Supporters of. Lineage is traced through . The advantages are that there is a partner there to share in all of life's ups and downs and that a family. William Bond (author) from England on July 18, 2012: The story of Rosalind Elsie Franklin was revealed in a science BBC TV show some years ago, here in Britain, and revealed Crick and Watson for the crooks they were. It does not promote research and development. Wiki User 2014-06-11 21:43:24 Study now See answer (1) Best Answer Copy The advantages is that they are strong because one. A world ruled by women, is far less likely to go to war. We seem to accept violence and war as 'normal'. I think that we are all well aware of woman's fallibility, wrongful decisions, their right to own every aspect of their lives and their decisions, their violence and indirect competitivness, as well as their cunning and manipulative personalities that could either be used to hurt or harm others, their cause of emotional abuse, and all the imperfections that women are guilty of, no one here is denying that, I think we all perfectly know what exactly it is we are asking for, we also have been at the shit end of the stick by women but see within them their ultimate potential to make this world better, just as we see this within all of us, we don't need feminism or civil rights to tell us that, but there are people in this world that definately need to be firmly reminded of that. We are equal mentally and physically, there couldn't be just women or just men in this world, it requires both to create an equal society. Who was it that invented everything, from the block and tackle to the birth control pill? That was the identity of Spartan Masculinity, Spartan women supported their men by giving them strength and pride through saying that. Hardly anyone would use violence as a calculated strategic method for achieving successful results. Many men are very aware that warfare is total insanity, but men cannot help themselves. I can't say that if I was raped and brutalized that I wouldn't hunt down those men and brutalize them in return. Women have had equal access to education for the last half century. Get over yourselves and realize that it takes both parties to make a functioning government and society. We have to be clear about this. Under the influence of Charles Darwin's theories of biological evolution, many 19th-century scholars sought to formulate a theory of cultural evolution. 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